“Why are we “shoulding” all over ourselves?” Carrie Bradshaw, Sex in the City.
*If you really should do it, then just do it.
*If you just think you should be doing it, “should” or get off the pot. Decide…!
*If you feel like you should do something because that’s what everyone expects you to do, well, maybe you shouldn’t.
Try making a list of the things you catch yourself saying, “I should…” . Really think about that list, and make a decision to do what you need to do, and let the other stuff go, along with the guilt.
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